tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post1558063082897925518..comments2024-02-13T21:31:57.980-04:00Comments on Facing Autism in New Brunswick: Autistic Laughter? Conor's Laugh Is His Own, It Is NOT An Autistic LaughAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05838571980003579163noreply@blogger.comBlogger17125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-74997740635324726992014-08-31T19:51:12.605-03:002014-08-31T19:51:12.605-03:00My son was diagnosed at the age 2 with SDD to rule...My son was diagnosed at the age 2 with SDD to rule out autism... Around 3yrs old he was finally diagnosed with mild autism... He's been developing really slow... And now he just been laughing on his own.. Its actually frustrating. Because at night when he goes to sleep he laughs for hours non stop,.. What should I do...? There were nothing to laugh about on the first place.,, before I thought I can jus easily accept his condition.. But now being a single mom and no husband to be there for you.. Its slowly exhausting me..Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03034105417253423048noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-33075352637159866732009-05-31T22:23:18.698-03:002009-05-31T22:23:18.698-03:00Anon at 6:29 and 10:28 was Amanda Baggs. I recogn...Anon at 6:29 and 10:28 was Amanda Baggs. I recognize the writing and thinking style immediately. Interesting that she uses the term "therapy" which I thought to her was something bad but I guess when she comments anonymously, she can be another person.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-81563853510130906742009-05-31T15:53:22.096-03:002009-05-31T15:53:22.096-03:00I meant that people with severe autism are never g...I meant that people with severe autism are never going to understand the types of laughter you described in those social contexts. They will never get that far in understanding social skills.<br /><br />What you described, in terms of social impairment, is quite subtle. You could get away with inappropriate laughter in real life; no one would think anything was really wrong with you.<br /><br />Some people with autism have much more severe problems than knowing when or when not to laugh.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540927559726674184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-45111987713294037722009-05-31T11:18:48.271-03:002009-05-31T11:18:48.271-03:00Helping autistic children and adults understand so...Helping autistic children and adults understand social cues and context does not require research of "autistic laughing" as a style of laughing separate from other human beings. <br /><br />You identify yourself as a person with an autism disorder but do not specify which disorder. My son has autistic disorder and he has been assessed with profound developmental delays but he has no problem with laughing, genuinely and appropriately.<br /><br />I didn't cherry pick anything. The subject of the article I commented on was autistic laughing. <br /><br />I explained what I have a problem with about "autistic laughing" research. You chose to ignore what I said.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05838571980003579163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-3179872600745450062009-05-31T10:28:39.705-03:002009-05-31T10:28:39.705-03:00"Most people with severe autism are never going to..."Most people with severe autism are never going to come close to understanding anything you just wrote."<br /><br />Most people will not have spent any time analysing laughter and thus will not understand the role of different types of laughter in social situations. Thus they will have trouble understanding the actual purpose and utility of research like this.<br /><br />They will "just know" the difference between laughs, when/where you should laugh, and at/with who, "intuitively", and will respond accordingly. They will use laughter (or being seen/heard as laughing) as a social tool as much as an expression.<br /><br />This places people with autism at a disadvantage as we can get seen as 'serious' (when we don't laugh when we are socially obligated) , 'childish' (when we laugh along with everyone else, but laugh in a noticably different manner) or 'ignorant/immature' (when we laugh at something funny in a situation where laughter of any type is considered socially inappropriate), even risking being labelled as 'dangerous' and 'psychotic' when we laugh at things abrutly and out-of-context (such as when we laugh at things without others being aware of why we're laughing).<br /><br />Remember, this is NOT about an "autistic laugh" despite your cherry-picking of quotes, but about what the different patterns of laughing could mean in terms of contributing to social impairments.<br /><br />Quite why some people don't want us to look at what autistic impairments are actually out there so that we can look at including them in therapy, is aboslutely beyond me.<br /><br />'Appropriate' laughing is already included in social skills and social stories programmes (as well as SaLT, but that's more to do with production than application). Autism services are already identifying it as a area worth looking into. It's even on the NAS infosheets about autism, as it's such a clearly identifiable symptom.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-78194293863271520072009-05-30T20:47:52.497-03:002009-05-30T20:47:52.497-03:00I really don't understand most of what you just wr...I really don't understand most of what you just wrote.<br /><br />Most people with severe autism are never going to come close to understanding anything you just wrote.<br /><br />I'm still working on actually getting out of my house and being in situations where I might actually encounter this "laughter."Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540927559726674184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-23311658212695758962009-05-30T18:19:58.947-03:002009-05-30T18:19:58.947-03:00"Since when is laughing too much "socially inappro..."Since when is laughing too much "socially inappropriate?" "<br /><br />At various times:<br /><br />laughing too long at a joke (length is defined by emergent consensus).<br /><br />laughing at a situation that is deemed 'serious' by the observers, even when the same group of observers would laugh at a similar situation that affected someone else (i.e. people may laugh at the mailboy falling over, but people limit laughing at the boss when he trips)<br /><br />laughing "the wrong laugh" at a situation i.e. laughing out loud at a situation that would normally be seen as warranting a chuckle. <br /><br />NOT laughing at something that isn't actually funny, but for which it is socially advantageous for you to be seen as finding funny (the bosses jokes, jokes from the best man speech at a wedding, funny remarks made by someone with significantly more social power than you)<br /><br />Basically, social appropriateness of laughs is defined by:<br /><br />length compared to norm within context<br />volume compared to norm within context<br />peer group context and their ability to accept that type,volume and length of laughter from you, given your relative posistion in the social group<br />subject and the social norms concerning laughing at the subject with in the social and interpersonal setting<br />target and their relative power to you and the peer group<br /><br />Hope that helps a bit.<br /><br />It's complex, but wait until you get onto smiles. The idea that there are different types (symmetry, width, height of lips, motion, length held for etc) of smile for different reasons and social settings took me a very long time to get over, especially as I'd followed the "smile=happy" paradigm unquestionably for years.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-22179167645975871652009-05-30T17:35:17.033-03:002009-05-30T17:35:17.033-03:00"Hudenko didn't say that there was a special kind ..."Hudenko didn't say that there was a special kind of "autistic" laughter; he said that autistic kids more often laugh to express real emotion, rather than for social purposes."<br /><br />I read the blog entry and according to the entry there is an "autistic laugh."<br /><br />"Autistics laughed just as much as nonautistics. The sole difference between autistic and nonautistic laughs was in proportion of voiced laughs. While on average, 97% of autistic children's "laugh episodes" were voiced, only 63% and 47% (age-equivalent and chronological age groups respectively) of nonautistic children's laughs were voiced. And about half the autistic children produced only voiced laughs.<br /><br />"Hudenko et al. (in press) describe voiced laughs as having a "tonal, song-like quality" and as "strongly associated with positive affect," while unvoiced laughs are "largely atonal and noisier." Instead of reflecting a person's genuine emotions, unvoiced laughs are hypothesized to reflect various social signals."<br /><br />So, "voiced laughs" are "autistic laughs" which, according to this, are "real laughs" that display "true emotion." "Unvoiced laughs" are just fakers, I guess.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540927559726674184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-83713195709064688542009-05-30T16:40:11.061-03:002009-05-30T16:40:11.061-03:00Anne, I am saying:
1) We don't need research ...Anne, I am saying:<br /><br /> 1) We don't need research to try and establish that persons with autism spectrum disorders have a specific laugh, ie. a more genuine ... or a less genuine laugh than anyone else.<br /><br /> Research funding should be dedicated to serious issues affecting persons with autism disorders; issues going to causation, treatment, education and cure ... not to creating stereotypes.<br /><br /> 2) A parent's observation of, and experience with, their own child's laughter is solid evidence not to be dismissed as simply "anecodtal".<br /><br /> There is a big difference between anecdotal evidence as to the causes of an autism disorder and as to the effectiveness of a treatment or cure and direct evidence of common human experiences such as laughter.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05838571980003579163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-73753923739403259882009-05-30T16:15:34.155-03:002009-05-30T16:15:34.155-03:00Harold, I don't understand what you're saying abou...Harold, I don't understand what you're saying about "autistic laughs." Apparently Hudenko found in his study that when autistic kids laugh, it is very likely to be genuine laughter. This is consistent with your experience with Connor. <br /><br />Hudenko didn't say that there was a special kind of "autistic" laughter; he said that autistic kids more often laugh to express real emotion, rather than for social purposes.<br /><br />I think the point that Michelle was trying to make was that Hudenko implied that people who don't use laughter for social purposes could be seen as having a deficit. This, I thought she was saying, was ironic in view of Hudenko's findings that people have a more positive response to genuine laughter. I don't see anything in what Michelle said about Hudenko's study that pertained to how well you know your own child.<br /><br />However, I suppose that if you don't know how to "laugh" when your boss tells a joke that isn't funny, that could be seen by some people as a deficiency. Maybe from Hudenko's research, something could be added to kids' ABA programs to teach them the skill of fake social laughter.Annehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11578123223843089702noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-26147192410199909752009-05-30T15:46:21.201-03:002009-05-30T15:46:21.201-03:00You have good points as always, and I agree that r...You have good points as always, and I agree that research dollars should not be put towards this and like subjects, but I had a slightly different take on it, so I'll be odd man out on this one. I liked thinking about this concept because it made me think of my son's joy, laughter, and smiling as coming from true authentic emotion unlike the average person who can be duplicitous and phony.Marni Wachshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02824153164609048742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-55511753885614856862009-05-30T12:26:26.573-03:002009-05-30T12:26:26.573-03:00Ms Dawson's use of the phrase "autism advocates" i...<I>Ms Dawson's use of the phrase "autism advocates" is actually code for parents of autistic children but since she doesn't want to appear anti-parent she uses the expression autism advocates sarcastically, a tone which permeates most of her writings.</I>I am not a parent. I have no children, autistic or typical. However, I am a person on the autistic spectrum who longs for a cure and an end to the misery called autism. For that reason, Michelle Dawson has also called me an "autism advocate". So, it is not just parents she calls this, but an apparently ironic if not sarcastic term that she applies to anyone who wants to rid the world of autism-which she implies is by extension ridding the world of autistic people. Apparently, according to her logic, if someone wants to cure someone who has a disability, they want to murder that person as well.jonathanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14972394536850151087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-48350713296565659912009-05-30T11:24:36.904-03:002009-05-30T11:24:36.904-03:00This is one of the dumbest ND things I have heard ...This is one of the dumbest ND things I have heard of so far.<br /><br />"...autistic children in this study expressed more positive emotion--more genuine happy affect--in interacting with another person than did the nonautistic children."<br /><br />"The authors imply, in the absence of any evidence in this direction, that all this happy, genuine, engaging autistic laughter is unlikely to be socially "appropriate." Unfortunately, according to the authors, autistics "are not using laughter in a socially subtle manner." And here is the paper's unfounded concluding sentence:<br /><br /> In fact, by using laughter in a less social manner it may be that this expressive pattern actually contributes to the social deficits exhibited by children with autism instead of serving to facilitate connections with others."<br /><br />Since when is laughing too much "socially inappropriate?" <br /><br />I don't have "voiced laughter." My laughs are very quiet, very private, to myself. I rarely laugh out loud.<br /><br />But, when I get REALLY happy I'll jump up and down and/or flap my hands.<br /><br />I know ND has probably already written about how hand-flapping should be seen as socially appropriate.<br /><br />To be honest, I'm not sure where these ND people live. No one has ever ridiculed me for flapping my hand or being "autistic." There are plenty of non-autistic people who act weird or even weirder than I do. People don't really stare or laugh at me: they glance and move on, like everyone does with everything slightly out of the ordinary. I know ND people do it, too. They like to point out how normal "Neurotypical" people are, even posting videos that make fun of them.Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12540927559726674184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-65673947276109813052009-05-30T10:28:04.724-03:002009-05-30T10:28:04.724-03:00Hi Harold,
Holy frikin frankn crap! What a comple...Hi Harold,<br /><br />Holy frikin frankn crap! What a complete waste of scarce resources. I know for a fact that when my son laughs and smiles it means he is happy (duh). I am quite sure that all neurotypes can be happy at times. I have an uncle (neurotypical) and his laugh is "unique", I doubt his laugh has a different meaning than mine.<br /><br />One of the most wonderful things about my son is that his happiness is the most genuine honest happiness experiences I have ever seen. We play quite a bit and [shocking to some] the ABA sessions we have are filled with laughter. Fun and laughter during ABA is now our primary reinforcer – we have transitioned away from edibles and tangibles for reinforcement – our son partakes, and learns greatly, with ABA because it is fun. Some people just gotta “go figure”. I got the video tape and photos to prove it.Barry Hudsonnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-14354341884027362712009-05-30T09:57:12.236-03:002009-05-30T09:57:12.236-03:00"Autistic laughter"??? What will they think of nex..."Autistic laughter"??? What will they think of next. My youngest son has broken all the "social" stereotypes. He loves to laugh, sing, play, tickle, rock in a chair w/Mom, snuggle.... He's adorable. And... it's laughter... Yes, right now at the computer it's more of a vocal noise b/c he's wound out... but when we play it's full 7yr old giggles.<br /><br />I need to read that article.... I love this peer review crap... IMO it's less true than anecdotal b/c neither party has bothered to actually talk to someone who's been there, tried that. <br /><br />S.farmwifetwohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02680758336779501712noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-54726556071288690232009-05-30T09:36:52.342-03:002009-05-30T09:36:52.342-03:00good post.
I had not heard of an "autistic laugh"...good post.<br /><br />I had not heard of an "autistic laugh" before and it sounds like total codswallop to me. <br /><br />My son really laughs and always has. He chuckles, giggles, cackles and bellylaughs.<br /><br />I agree that funds should be spent on more realistic projects, like why Autism Sprectrum Disorders are so rapidly on the rise. If the growth rate continues on it's currect curve, by 2036 ASD kids will outnumber the normies. <br /><br />Who'll be laughing then?One Sick Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06744571221745247997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-33052404.post-46713101399295318402009-05-30T09:36:35.473-03:002009-05-30T09:36:35.473-03:00good post.
I had not heard of an "autistic laugh"...good post.<br /><br />I had not heard of an "autistic laugh" before and it sounds like total codswallop to me. <br /><br />My son really laughs and always has. He chuckles, giggles, cackles and bellylaughs.<br /><br />I agree that funds should be spent on more realistic projects, like why Autism Sprectrum Disorders are so rapidly on the rise. If the growth rate continues on it's currect curve, by 2036 ASD kids will outnumber the normies. <br /><br />Who'll be laughing then?One Sick Motherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06744571221745247997noreply@blogger.com